How come there is always someone wherever you work that enjoys screwing up other people's lives? There is a woman at school who I work very closely with and if she's not criticizing someone, she doesn't know what else to do. I have tried to bend over backwards to be kind to her because I know she has some issues at home that are upsetting her, but she doesn't need to ruin my first year teaching. the worst part is, none of it is blatant. It's always done in a "helping" way. Being underhanded and sneaky is even worse if you ask me.
Posted by Hannah at October 18, 2004 08:57 PMYep, have run into those types throughout my working life. Sometimes I think work politics are the worst thing about any job. I guess all I can say is just keep on your toes around the woman and drown her with sweetness. And ALWAYS cover your butt & document (if applicable). That has always worked for me.
Posted by: Deb at October 18, 2004 11:17 PMYes, I've learned that documenting a lot of things help. I've always had one person treat me like that at work...not sure about now...I'm sure she's out there :) But hang in there, it's not worth pulling your hair out. Be sweet back but be firm too. I know you can do it!
Posted by: stef at October 19, 2004 10:57 AMyup, those types of people are everywhere. I have no idea why they act like they do...
Posted by: bethanie at October 19, 2004 10:55 PM