We left pretty early yesterday because Olivia sleeps late, and we figured we could get most of the way home before she woke up. She didn't sleep as much as on the way down, but she did really well and didn't cry! What a relief!
I came home to a very neat house (thank you to B who watched our dogs). Everything looked great and we got right to work unpacking. We pretty much unpacked everything yesterday, so I wasn't surprised to see this when I went into our bedroom:

Today, James took Olivia to Best Buy to buy a present for B since he kept our dogs. We got him Season 1 of Queer As Folk (which James felt strange buying) and Season 1 of Will and Grace. I know he'll love them! He says he's Will and I'm Grace, so I know I'll get stuck watching it too. While they ran their errands, I hesitantly went grocery shopping without the baby (I hate being away from her). I never go alone-- I think I've been grocery shopping alone once since she was born-- and of course, I ran into co-workers and students who wanted to see the baby. Oh well. I did get the shopping done faster. I love taking my time and looking at everything. I usually don't even plan my meals until I get there. I picked up some Nescafe: Cafe con leche and I think it's my new favorite drink. It's even sweetened already. When I spent a summer at Cambridge University in England, I drank Nescafe all the time. I remember in France and Italy, they had these Nescafe machines. We don't have anything cool like that here. :-( And since I can't afford to travel now for a loooong time, this Nescafe stuff will have to do the trick! :-)
I still need to post pictures of Olivia's new clothes from Carter's . . but I also hit some baby boutiques. Oh to have like $1000 to blow in there! I did buy ONE thing from the boutiques: a kimono-style onesie made by "Tea". How perfect is that?

I'm having a real dilemna here. I always said that we'd keep Olivia in our room in the bassinet until we got back from the beach, but I'm not ready!!! She's NEVER slept in her crib, and while I want her to get some use out of it, there's plenty of time. I know the nursery is right across the hall, but I won't be able to lay in bed and listen to her breathe. I won't hear the little sighs. And there's no point of using a monitor because I WILL be able to hear if she cries. I just love listening to every little sound she makes. I get this warm, secure feeling knowing that my whole little family is in the room with me at night. This is something I'm going to have to get over, isn't it? I actually wanted to co-sleep, so I already feel like having her in our room is a 2nd best option, so I don't want to give that up. (And if you're wondering why we didn't co-sleep, I think I let my family talk me out of it, saying that she'd stay in our bed forever, which would've been fine. 30 years old sleeping in mom's bed, totally cool with me! I felt nervous though from a safety issue, so currently, she sleeps in the bassinet, and then sleeps with me for a few hours when James gets up and there's more room).
Right now, I am baking something special and my whole house smells amazing. I'll share it tomorrow when I know for sure it came out ok. Also, I have my surgery tomorrow (the cyst between my boobs is coming out), so to keep myself from complaining and boring you to death, I'll save my recipe for tomorrow.
Now, for a sneak peak of Oliva's 3 month album, which will be finished and up this evening.



Those pictures are sweet. I love the one with her and her big smile. She's so pretty. :)
Glad you's had a great trip. We're going away next week for a few days, I hope the baby gets along well. I know exactly what you mean "only to have $1000" to spend on clothes for the baby. I have to resist the temptation all the time, there are just so many cute things out there. :)
Posted by: Emmakirst at July 16, 2006 10:04 PMThe pictures are very sweet :). There is so much time for Olivia to sleep in her crib. If you feel like you want her to stay in your room, then keep her in your room. There will be plenty of years to come for her to sleep in her own room; it's not hurting anything to have her in there near you. Plus, they (the SIDS experts) say it's safest for babies to stay in the parents room in a separate crib for the first year anyway. Do what you think is best, not what you think everyone else thinks you should do.
Posted by: Chas at July 17, 2006 01:37 AMI still use my monitor even though the Bubby is only ten steps away (the very next room). I also like to hear the sighs and oohs and aahs. I know the time will come to turn it off, but I'm not ready yet either! He's nearly one already, I can hardly believe it!
Posted by: Valkyrie at July 18, 2006 08:55 AM