August 17, 2006

Wanted: FRIENDS

Well, I have been hard at work trying to find a mom's group/play group for us to join. HARDER THAN I THOUGHT. It's difficult to find one that's the right fit. If you recall, there was the Redneck Mom's Group, and now, one where barely anyone comes. B-O-R-I-N-G. Aren't there any nice, NORMAL, mom's out there looking to make other mommy friends so they can talk about things like poop and teething? Apparently, not too many . . .

Today, however, I stumbled upon yet another mom's group in the area, and even though the leader told me the summer heat has kept most members away, I think I might give it a try. I also heard that "My Gym" has classes for babies. I went to "Monkey Joe's" this week and there were like 4 moms there.

It feels like high school all over again, you know, trying to get "in" with the group that's right for you. I'm not looking for something to fill my days-- Olivia does that-- I just want a nice group to go to once every week or so. It gets lonely staying home.

Ok, I have posted about this topic enough. I'm starting to sound really hard-up. I won't post again until I have found something that fits.

P.S. I could use some prayers. I am looking for a part-time job from home, and there are some possibilities. There's one in particular I really want, but I am waiting to hear back . . .

Posted by Hannah at August 17, 2006 10:48 PM
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Good luck with the job!

And I always feel like it's hard to make friends as an adult. We have a hard time finding other couples that we like to spend time with. Since Matt is 7 years older than me, people his age or slightly older are a lot older than me and often have more than one child. Which is fine, but since we are childless, it limits when we can do things with them.

Posted by: rachel at August 18, 2006 07:03 AM

What would day care cost you for a day? Again certified teachers make 100.00 a day subbing. YOu know enough people here....

What about telemarketing? Have you looked in the paper at classified ads? How about playing the stock market? Investments?

RM was my first good morning today. I still feel congested and crappy. Thank god it's Friday! See I needed a TGIF email from you today!

Posted by: Rebecca at August 18, 2006 08:50 AM

I think it is a normal thing...looking for friends. Making new ones once your situation in life changes. As babe gets older and you take her to more activities, you will make more friends. Don't worry about it too much now

Posted by: Melany at August 18, 2006 10:01 AM

Just a suggestion .... give some of the groups a few tries since different moms show up different weeks which give groups a different feel.

Is your color scheme & banner different? I really like it. Maybe I just got an extra hour of sleep last night and so everything looks fresh and new to me! LOL

Posted by: Jennie at August 18, 2006 10:18 AM

Good luck with the job options! You are right it is hard to find buddies as an adult. Especially during changes such as marriage and kids. People moving away or moving on. Good luck with that as well!

Posted by: Ani at August 18, 2006 11:21 AM

have you looked into joing the La Leche league group in your area? (Hmm. maybe you posted about this before..) Cause you could make friends there. Also, check out the local hospitals. Ours has a "strollercise" class that meets once a week where you bring your baby and excerise. It only lasts for 4 weeks and it costs $10 but still. Also, check out your local libraries for story time hour. Another good way to meet moms.

Posted by: alfredsmom at August 18, 2006 12:01 PM

Good luck with finding a moms' group that you enjoy! I *love* mine, although participation in activities has been kind of sporadic this summer because of vacations and the heat. Our regular meetings are awesome! I feel *so* glad to have found it. Maybe you could start one through your church? Good luck with the part-time job thing!

Posted by: Lisanne at August 18, 2006 01:11 PM

I'm not even a mom and I have a hard time finding people I can relate to. I will pray for you!

Posted by: Laura at August 18, 2006 04:48 PM

I'll be your friend :) There are a lot of miles between us though! Praying that God will put just the right moms & tots in your path.

Posted by: Amber at August 18, 2006 09:55 PM

I know what you mean. There really aren't any mom groups around here either, and the ones that do meet do so while I'm at work. There REALLY aren't any groups for working moms.

Posted by: Chas at August 20, 2006 10:13 PM