July 24, 2007

Books and Boobs

Am feeling v. happy!

There's a house for sale in our neighborhood, so I called the number on the sign and pretended to be in the market for a new home so I could find out the asking price. I was thrilled to learn that we've aquired some equity! Now if I could only pay off the new heater and air conditioner we put in so I can actually keep the equity when we sell our house. We've been thinking about moving lately. Just thinking. And talking. Not planning. We want another child, but I know I'd like to enjoy having more money each month (less cooking for me!) and I'd hate to have a bigger mortgage. Hmmm... something to think about. And moving is such a pain. I'm getting anxious just thinking about it. :-)

My aunt and uncle are visiting us this week. They last saw Olivia when she was 7 months old, so she's a completely different baby now. Walking and talking, and she's been giving them hugs and kisses. I like that she doesn't give open-mouthed kisses like so many babies. She gives nice, dry normal smooches and I love them. I'll often pretend to cry just to get a smile and a kiss (she knows I'm kidding).

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I am impatiently waiting for Harry Potter to arrive. Am@zon hasn't even sent it out yet. I may have to attack someone with a hack saw. I WANT MY HARRY POTTER BOOK AND I WANT IT NOW! I am DYING to find out how it all ends. I just hope this one is better than the last. I wasn't that impresses with the last one. In the meantime, I've found the cutest series: the "No. 1 Ladies Detective Agency". I'm only on the first in the series, but I'm already hooked. It's about a woman in Botswana who opens her own detective agency with the money from the sale of her father's cattle after his death. I like that it's in Africa because the cultural info is interesting. no. 1.jpg
I like that it has words like lekker and biltong. Good old South African words (I am so totaly obsessed). I love reading words spelled in the Bristish fashion. Words like "organised" and "neighbour". Very cool. It doesn't read like a typical mystery. It's a lot lighter, perfect for tired Mamas like me who can barely focus on a book by the time their stubborn baby is asleep.

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I also ordered Olivia a book called, "Breastmilk Makes My Tummy Yummy" to which James asked, "Isn't that a bit weird?" My repsonse? A very mean look and "Absolutely not!" I think it's great! Breastfeeding is awesome and amazing and this book is the cutest. It even has a picture of a baby nursing from a "boof" on the front. She may not understand the book now, but someday, when I nurse her brother or sister, we can read the book together and she'll understand how special it is.

Speaking of BF, I was at a breastfeeding moms' playgroup yesterday, and I learned of a campaign called ban the bag. It's interesting. Check it out. I have mixed feelings. If you are formula feeding, it's very helpful I suppose, but it might sway some people toward bottles who are undecided. I know how much I wanted to nurse, but when I couldn't get Olivia to latch on, the bag, with all its samples, started to look good, but I resisted the urge. In that sense, they were a bad influence, yet I was glad to have samples. I gave them to my friend and she was grateful. I think we need to be pro-breast but not anti-formula either. Some people need to formula-feed and some want to and will regardless of what you tell them, so why not give them something free to feed their baby? Just thinking out loud (you know what I mean). I like to talk about BF with these ladies, but I think the judgement is wrong. They can be pleased with their choice, and be passionate about it, without ridiculing others. That really bothers me.

Now for a completely off topic question. Seen any good movies lately? My Netfl!x queue is seriously lacking.

Posted by Hannah at July 24, 2007 03:49 PM
Comments

I understand wanting more room...but if you are going to move in 2-4 years, then just wait. Although, the housing market is definately a buys market right now...sellers are having to reduce their price or make a reason for buys to see their house is UNIQUE.

Enjoy your company! I have been at school all day. ICK.

Posted by: rebecca at July 24, 2007 08:34 PM

I loved the movie "The Pursuit of Happyness" I was so inspirational, not sure if you've seen it yet.

Posted by: Michigan mom at July 24, 2007 09:20 PM

I LOOOVE the Ladies Detective Agency books! They are all just as fabulous! I am reading the newest one now actually =)

As for Netflix - DO NOT rent Babel - it's a very odd movie - but if you want something James will like too (and suprisingly I did too) Blood Diamond (you will love that one b/c it's in africa) and The Departed are great ones! I need some more in my queue too!!

Posted by: Sara at July 25, 2007 07:54 AM

I really do hate sites like that... I wanted to BF, but it just wasn't meant to be with the huge nipple that I have and with PCOS you just don't make much milk if any... that bag was a life saver for us... I agree that hospitals shouldn't market us patients but still... I guess I get tired of groups like that looking down on me when i didn't have a choice... and I'm not ripping on you... just that site hehehe... I think it is awesome you are still BF hehehe =)

Posted by: Shannon O. at July 25, 2007 03:07 PM

Ugh. Moving. I don't want to move, but I can't deny the fact that we're running out of space. We have no more bedrooms and there is very little space for Tabby to play in. There's a house in our neighborhood that is approx double the size of ours that they have reduced so many times that it is now in a possible price range for us. We're going to go look at it on Sunday.

I hate to think of leaving my pretty green kitchen and Tabby's nursery. :(

Posted by: jesser at July 27, 2007 09:37 AM