
Is it bad to re-use basically everything in our current nursery for our little man? I feel badly not picking out all new things for him, but the truth is, I love Olivia's gender-neutral theme and she's never even spent the night in her room. I spent so much time creating her space and imagining her sleeping in the crib and it's never happened! Crazy. Anyway, it seems wasteful to buy all new stuff when what we have was hardly used. We're going to create a "big girl" room for Olivia and then modify her current room a bit for Baby Boy-- at least that's the plan if I can get over the guilt of not buying him his own stuff.
Posted by Hannah at January 27, 2008 09:03 PMOH gosh! Don't feel guilty! He won't care one wit about not brand new stuff for him. Now if you had pink frills everywhere in his room I might encourage you to get some boyish stuff but room decor is far too expensive to be buying new every time. You will have loads of fun finding cute clothing for him. That will all (necessarily) be just for him. And toys. He will most likely want something with wheels and dirt. :)
Posted by: villagegirl at January 28, 2008 12:45 AMOf course you can re-use everything - I'm doing that (ok it's easier for me because two boys), with the exception of the bedlinen. I haven't even bought any new clothes because some of the bubby's really small baby stuff was hardly worn, because he outgrew it so quickly. So far the only new stuff I've bought for new baby, are new bottles, new bedset (ocean theme i.e. turtle/octopus/fish etc), matching laundry bag, and new dummy's. That's it so far. Might get one or two outfits that are new, just so that I can tell them apart in their early 'going home from hospital' photos later!
Posted by: Rainbowfudge at January 28, 2008 02:11 AMNot only should you re-use everything (just think of all the extra money you'll save for cute boy clothes and a pedi for YOU!), but it makes it even more special for them to share it. You should save the little quilt from that set and pass it down to their kids one day...
Posted by: girl from florida at January 28, 2008 07:23 AMI definitely think you should use it! It's way too cute to keep in the closet!
Posted by: Jenn at January 28, 2008 07:46 AMI don't see anything wrong w/re-using everything. To make it feel like "baby boy's"~buy a couple pics that go along w/the theme & hang in the room. That's a cute bedding set, btw :)
Posted by: Connie at January 28, 2008 08:34 AMDon't feel badly, Hannah! You can always incorporate some more "boyish" things into the crib bedding and decor that you'd already bought for Olivia. I think that it would be silly not to reuse it! Gosh, I remember you posting that picture when you were pregnant with Olivia. Seems like yesterday!
Posted by: Lisanne at January 28, 2008 09:49 AMI say definetly re-use it. It wouldn't even be re-using it b/c Olivia really never used it....so I think it would be way cute! It will be exciting for Olivia too - sharing something with her little Bro!!
Posted by: Sara at January 28, 2008 11:24 AMThat decor is SO cute. I would feel guilty not using again. I'm sure you'll find some great accessories, though, to make his nursery all about him!
Posted by: Christina at January 28, 2008 11:33 AMI have a feeling your little boy is never going to hold it against you that he never got his own special baby bedding. A girl might...but a boy...no way. Plus, I have a feeling your little guy is going to get plenty of his own things.
Posted by: Chas at January 28, 2008 11:58 AMI wouldn't feel guilty. He is going to have a big boy room and he can have all new stuff then!
Like you said it's gender neutral and your doing other stuff in your little guy's room to make it his own.
It's sweet your kids are sharing.
Posted by: Ani at January 28, 2008 04:01 PMohhh i think that bedding is just too cute for a boy... you have to let him use it!! and do what GFF said... go get the nails done girl!!
Posted by: Shannon O. at January 28, 2008 07:36 PMI love that bedding!! And if Olivia never used it, whose to say that he will? He might be a bed sleeper, too. So don't feel guilty at all. If it were pink and unused, you'd probably feel torn about buying new that he might not use since Olivia didn't use hers. Right? (sounds good anyway! LOL)
Posted by: Jennie at January 29, 2008 08:30 AMSweetie...why does that bother you? She never used it...and most probably he won't either (I know where you are coming from since my kids also always shared our rooms until the were 'big kids') If you buy him new stuff, you most probably won't use it either
Posted by: Melany at February 2, 2008 01:59 PMI completely understand your feelings because I would feel the same way too! But then I would hear my dear friend tell me that I was crazy if I didn't use the things! lol!
Posted by: Jenny-up the hill at February 5, 2008 10:36 AM